Parents: Remember the consequences

Being a parent can be a worrisome task these days. There are so many mixed messages being thrown at your kids. Most of these messages are not for the good of your teen, but for the good of those sending the messages. In today’s society, knowledge is power. You must have that knowledge in order to direct your teen correctly. Here are some simple answers to common questions you may have.

What are STIs?

STIs are Sexually Transmitted Infections that are spread by sexual activity. These STIs are not just spread by vaginal and anal sex, but also oral sex (mouth to genitals.) STIs are generally bacterial (curable) or viral (treatable, but not curable).¹

What are the Symptoms of STIs?

Many of the STIs have no symptoms. Even without symptoms, they can still pass on the infection. Some STIs cause symptoms such as an abnormal discharge from the penis or vagina, burning sensation when urinating and abdominal pain. Skin changes can also occur; these include rashes, ulcers and warts.¹

Do Condoms Eliminate the Risk of Getting STIs?

Condoms have been proven to reduce the risk of certain STIs. However, there is still risk involved when you use a condom. Consistent condom use (100%) during vaginal sex reduces your risk for:

HIV by 85%

Gonorrhea by about 50%

Chlamydia by about 50%

Herpes by about 50%

Syphilis by about 50%

HPV by 50% or less

Few studies have been done to see whether condoms reduce the risk of STIs, including HIV, during oral sex or anal sex. Waiting to have sex until you are in a faithful, lifelong relationship (such as marriage) is the only certain way to avoid being infected sexually.

What Can You Do?

Talk to your teen about the choices he/she is making. Be aware of their relationships with friends and potential partners. You can be a very positive influence in your teen’s life.

Encourage abstinence. It’s the only 100% protection for your teen’s sexual health. Why would you want to encourage your child to use contraception that could still allow unplanned pregnancy or STIs? Do the sure thing. Abstinence is the only way to eliminate the risk.

http://www.medinstitute.org/content.php?name=stifacts Accessed: 10/09/07